Happiness

Day 21-A picture of something that makes you happy

Donuts

This special treat is my weakness. I would be so happy to eat one of these every morning. It makes me happy when I come into work and there are donuts. I love them!

Baxter- Look at him sportin his new hair cut. He is the best dog in the world!

Matt-hugs, kisses and just being together make me happy- he is the best husband ever!
Relaxing Baths make me happy.

My best friends and sisters in Alpha Phi always make me laugh and so happy! I love hanging out with these girls!! We had an Ugly Christmas Sweater party at Jacie's on Friday and it was a blast!

Service The other night for Relief Society we did a service project for some refugee children that live in Utah from Myanmar (Burma).Our ward collected pillows, pillowcases, socks, candy, books, soda, oranges, and blankets for 80 children. They were so happy and excited. The children sang songs and did a little Christmas program for us. It was such a great night. I was filled with the spirit and so happy!

Christmas also makes me happy- JUST 4 more days!

Day 20

Day 20-Someone you see yourself marrying or being with in the future

That was easy...Matthew- the most wonderful husband in the world!! I see myself married to this man forever and ever.

Dreaming...

I forgot day 17 and 18

Day 17- Someone who you would want to switch lives with for one day and why.

Hmmm. I think I would want to switch lives with Lindsey Vonn for one day. She is an AMAZING skier. She won the gold medal for downhill in 2010. She was the first American to win the gold medal for downhill skiing. I think she is the best skier ever. She competes in all four skiing events. I would love to be as good as she is. I would love to see how it feels to fly down the mountain with speed and accuracy. She is great! I want to ski all over the world.

Day 18-Plans/dreams/goals you have

Within the next few months:

Get into better shape, eat healthier and save money.

Within the next 1 year:

Matt and I are going to get sealed in the temple for time and all eternity!

Whithin the next 5 years:

We want to buy a house. And have Matt graduate from college.
Within the next 10 years:

I want to have 4 children and have an awesome family! I want to be a stay at home mom and maybe have a part-time job with marketing educational games or a ski resort when my kids are in school.

Within the next 20 years:

I want to travel a lot! Matt and I want to go to Hawaii, DC, New York, a cruise, Europe, New Zeland, church history tour, Florida and more.

Within the next 30 years:

I want to write a book.

I have many hopes, plans and dreams and I'm glad I have my husband so we can help each other accomplish our goals. One day hopefully all our dreams will come true!

Nicknames

Day 19-Nicknames you have and why you have them

When I was really little my parents called me Pixie Dixie. They say thats what little Texans are called (I was born in Houston, Texas). My friends and family almost always call me, and most common nickname is Shar. A few people called me Sharzard (apparently my name sounds like a Pokemon character- Charizard) or Charly (probably from the movie/book). My older sister called me Sherlock (especially if I said Captain Obvious comments acting like it was a new discovery- like "No duh Sherlock!" When I did study abroad in Mexico I had the most nicknames- Guera (blondie- EVERYONE called me this, even people I didnt know)
According to the Uraban Dictionary (and Mexicans, based on my experience)
1. guera means: spanish for fair or light skinned (feminine)

More nicknames in Monterrey included Lupita (my ward called me this...not sure why), Charolette, Charlenay (basically my name in a Spanish accent). In college a few people called me Shar Bear. Matt calls me Shar Bear, baby duck, and honey bear becuase he loves me. I love my nick names and also love my name.

me again....

Day 16- Another picture of yourself

Me and my Christmas decorated cupcake.

Day 15

Day 15-Put your ipod or shuffle on-first 10 songs that play

1.All We Know Is Falling by Paramore

2.Birthday Gallery by Daphne Loves Derby

3.My Happy Ending by Avril Lavagne

4.Amazed by Lonestar

5.Attention by The Academy Is...

6.Angel by Jack Johnson

7.Promises I Keep by Cherie Call (gotta love that EFY music)

8. Typical by Cartel

9.My Heart is the Worst Kind of Weapon by Fall Out Boy

10. Seventy Times 7 by Brand New

Families are Forever

Day 14- A picture of you and your Family

Our little Family

Matt, Sharlene and Baxter Romero

We love our Utah Jazz!

and our puppy. Baxter is 8 months old now and such a good dog.

Romero Fam

Lindsey and Cameron, Taylor, Greg and Karine, Milo (dog), Ryan, Lauren, Matt and Sharlene

Witt Fam
Chad, Kenzie, Melinda and Mikell, Sabrina, Marcus, Matt and Sharlene, Karen and Milton, David, Jessica, Carson, Jackson and Scott (We need a new family pic!)

We love our ward family too. We had our ward Christmas party and look how awesome and nice it was decorated.

I love the holidays and all the time that gets to be spent together as families.

no Day 13 and Tis the Season

Day 13-A letter to someone who has hurt you recently

hmmm I really cant think of anyone. So I'm just going to skip that...
Life is Good, no Great!!

I made this Cute craft on Saturday-

Countdown blocks for Christmas.

Thanks Stacy!

And Matt and I decorated our house (well tree and outside lights) for Christmas!

Thanks Gramme and Karine.

Last night we played games, frosted Christmas cupcakes, and ate dinner over at Chad and Melinda's house. Thanks guys that was so fun. Kenzie and Mikell are adorable! (Mel email me some pics please). I LOVE CHRISTMAS TIME!

Why I Blog

Day 12-How you found out about blogger and why you have one

My sisters- Melinda and Jessica and my cousins Natalie, Emily and Camille all had blogs on blogger that I loved to stalk, I mean read. But I had facebook and email and thought only oldies used blogs.

But then I went to Mexico for study abroad. Not having a cell phone, texting or a laptop for 6 months pretty much forced me to make a blog to keep my family updated with pictures and keep me sane (I love sharing my stories and getting feedback) So a blog was a perfect solution. I'd go to the computer lab at UDEM (Universidad de Monterrey) like everyday to spill the many details of my Mexican adventures through emails, facebook and my new BLOG. My first blog was http://lifeofsharlene.blogspot.com/. I loved it so much I kept blogging when I got back home and have been doing it ever since. When Matt and I got engaged I started this blog! (Now I'm kinda addicted and love blogging!)

Not just Friends but Sisters too

Day 11-Another picture of you and your friends

Whitney, Jacie, Karly, Sarah,

Ryann, Rachelle, J Lowe, Biz, Me, Becca

Every month we have a night where the Alpha Phi Alum girls go to dinner and another night when we do game night. I think game night is my favorite! Novembers was a blast at J Lowe's house. I LOVE you girls! AOE

Day 10- Music

Day 10-Songs you listen to when you're bored, happy, sad, mad, hyped

Whenever I'm really sad or mad I like to drive in my car and blast (now dont laugh!) the Hilary Duff songs on the Lizzie McGuire soundtrack.

My favorite songs on that CD, "The tide is high" "You make me feel like a Star" "Girl in the Band" "Why Not" and "What Dreams are Made of."

When I'm happy (or mostly anytime) I like to listen to All American Rejects, Brand New, Mae, Lady Gaga, Fall Out Boy, Shania Twain, Kings of Leon, Neon Trees, Brandon Flowers, Taylor Swift and I've recently really liked Mike Posner.

When I'm bored or its too quiet at work I love listening to Cartel (they're my favorite!) and Kelly Clarkson. I love www.pandora.com.

And of course everyday of December I listen to Christmas Music! It just makes my day and brings in the Christmas spirit.

I love a lot of different music. Matt basically taught me how to love music. My all time favorite music is when he sings and plays guitar.

F-A-M-I-L-Y

Day 9-Something you're proud of in the past few days

For some reason this post took me forever. I was having too much fun over Thanksgiving break. Something I'm proud of is keeping good relationships with my family. I talk to one of my sisters, mom. dad or brother almost everyday. I love my husband. I visited my Grandma Witt two Fridays ago, went to my grandma and grandpa Dickson's for Thanksgiving dinner/lunch and had dessert and games with Matts family that night. We saw the movie Tangled. Its so cute. A Disney classic. I love my families (mine and Matt's) and I'm SO grateful for them!

Another thing I'm proud of is Matt and I rode on the Big Shot at the Stratosphere! So fun and so scary. Here are some awesome pictures from our weekend trip.I wish the pic above was bigger cuz it is HILARIOUS and real. That was how we look when the ride blasted off. haha.

Matt and I had a little vacation to Las Vegas. We saw the Penn & Teller magic show,

ate delicious food and had tons of fun. We have been married for 6 months. Time Flys! I love life.

We just found out today- Matt is getting hired on with Okland Construction and going to get a raise!! I'm so proud of him!

GOALS

Day 8-Short term goals for this month and when you'll accomplish them

• Get done with Christmas shopping by Dec 18 (I hate last minute shopping, but always seem to do it- not this year though!)
• Pay my credit card bill
• Exercise at least 2 times a week
• Become a booking coordinator at the Salt Palace (get a raise :) by the new year
• Keep a good attitude and remember the holiday spirit all month
• Decorate my house- Get a Christmas tree and decorations by Dec 5
• Have a fun safe trip for our 6 month anniversary to Las Vegas (wahoo)
• Learn to play a Christmas song on the piano by Sunday, December 19

I'll let you know how these go.

Impact

Day 7-A picture of someone/something that has the biggest impact on you

Matthew is the person that has had the most impact on my life. We've had so many fun times since High School and have also overcome many challenges through our years together and apart.
Getting married is the biggest event and decision that had the biggest impact on my life. Getting married teaches you to become more selfless, patient and understanding.
Thank you Matt (even though you dont read this) I am who I am today because of you. I love you!

I read my friend Malae's blog and got a few ideas and seem to agree with her.

"There is something about marriage that really makes you come to a realization of who you really are. Marriage exploits all of your weaknesses, strengths, short-comings, habits, and even some characteristics your never knew you had. I have discovered more about myself than I ever had before in my life when I transitioned from being a Miss to a Mrs. I have come to understand the meaning of "settling down".

There is something about the absolute necessity to put your spouse's needs before yours that makes you understand what you need to improve on. Humility, gratitude, patience...the list goes on and on.

There is something about becoming fully responsible for the bills, finances, insurance, meals, shelter, clothing, and nurturing your family that makes you realize that you are no longer that person you once were. Your life of depending on your parents is no longer. You have your own family now. It's a weird feeling.

So yes, the transition from Stage 1 (single) to Stage 2 (married) in my life had the biggest impact on me so far."

HARRY POTTER

Day 6-Favorite super hero and why

OKay I know I know. Harry Potter isnt really a "super" hero. But he's a hero and super awesome in my book. Tonight Matt and I saw Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows. I LOVE him! I loved the movie and I cant wait until part 2 comes out!

He is amazing. He has overcome a lot of trials in his life and developed into a great character. He shows that the right thing and the thing he has to do are not always, actually almost never, the easiest way. I love Hermione and Ron too.

My favorite SuperHero is probably Batman. I also like FLash. I like Batman because he is a regular person without supernatural powers. He works hard physically and intellectually to become who he is. He always fights crime and I love the movie Batman Begins.

But all in all I love HARRY POTTER more than any super hero I think.

World Traveler

Day 5-A picture of somewhere you've been

I wish I was a world traveler. But here are a few pictures of the places I have been and LOVE.

Bear Lake

Las Vegas

Seattle

Mexico- Monterrey, Tampico Beach (Gulf of Mexico), Mexico City, Teotihuacan (Pyramids)

I love to travel!